Bicycling and Divorce
On Friday, July 28, 2000 1:00:00 AM UTC-6, Eleanor MacMaster wrote:
I would not say that cycling has been direct cause of divorce in my case, but it has been a source of friction in various relationships of various type. I acknowledge the reality that in a relationship - especially one that involves children -- one must work at fitting in at least some riding and that one must meet one's responsibilities and obligations first. That being said, I also think that it is short-sighted and foolish even to attempt to stop the people one supposedly loves from doing something that they love. In the end they will only resent for you it. Someone who really care about the me that I most truly am would never want me to stop doing something that I love so much -- and, besides, is GOOD for me and helps keep me mentally and physically fit. One answer may be to ensure that one does not live with or marry people who do not comprehend this. Even with children, there are ways to work in at least a little riding -- I did, through severals years of full time work and single parenthood. Where there's a will...etc., -- "Biker Chick" tracking you down....email me. nicoll |
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