No bikes in the cemetery

The late Admiral Edith Hopper had a maxim that has served me
well also; it goes something like "Just do it. It's easier to
apologize later
than to get prior permission."

Having been married 34 years I have often relied on a similar maxim:
It's easier to get forgiveness than permission.

Dick Durbin

Another way of saying it- "If you can't stand the answer, don't ask the
question."

Jim wrote:

Another way of saying it- "If you can't stand the answer, don't ask the
question."

This post *screams* for some context....