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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. It is important to recognize anger as a natural, human response to death. Many years ago Mike Vandeman's brother was killed in San Fransisco in a bike accedent. As often happens, he became very angry at his brother for dying. Seemingly he never got over this (repressed) anger and it may have even grown into a form of hatred. Of course anger at a dead brother is socially and psychologically unacceptable, thus repressed, and thus often one of the more difficult symptoms in the grieving process to handle since it is hidden, often deeply. So rather than do the unthinkable and (say) **** on his brother's grave, he "transfered" his anger (and possible hatred) to bikers in general. This may have been more likely if his brother was seen in a near god-like or guru status, *or if he was an abuser.* =============== Transference From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Transference is a phenomenon in psychology characterized by unconscious redirection of feelings for one person to another. One definition of transference is "the inappropriate repetition in the present of a relationship that was important in a person's childhood." Another definition is "the redirection of feelings and desires and especially of those unconsciously retained from childhood toward a new object." Still another definition is "a reproduction of emotions relating to repressed experiences, esp. of childhood, and the substitution of another person . . . for the original object of the repressed impulses." Transference was first described by Sigmund Freud, who acknowledged its importance for psychoanalysis for better understanding of the patient's feelings. ..... Transference is common. Only in a personally or socially harmful context can transference be described as a pathological issue. A new theory of transference known as AMT (Abusive Multiple Transference) has been suggested by David W. Bernstein, in which abusers not only transfer negative feelings directed towards their former abusers to their own victims, but also transfer the power and dominance of the former abusers to themselves. This kind of transference is sometimes part of the psychological makeup of murderers -- for example the serial killer Carroll Cole. While his father was away in World War II, Cole's mother engaged in several extramarital affairs, forcing Cole to watch. She later beat him to ensure that he would not alert his father. Cole would later come to murder many women whom he considered "loose," and those in general who reminded him of his mother. Transference and counter-transference during psychotherapy In a therapy context, transference refers to redirection of a client's feelings from a significant person to a therapist. Transference is often manifested as an erotic attraction towards a therapist, but can be seen in many other forms such as rage, hatred, mistrust, parentification, extreme dependence, or even placing the therapist in a god-like or guru status. ......... See also * grieving * projection * countertransference * Parataxic distortion * displacement ==================== http://www.google.com/search?num=30&...er&btnG=Search The Stages Of Grief A Normal Life Process; Five Stages Of Grief. 1. Denial and Isolation. ... Anger. The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the ... http://www.memorialhospital.org/libr...ess-THE-3.html - 17k - ------- Anger and the Grieving Process Anger is but one of many emotional reactions to the painful reality of death. It is important to recognize anger as a natural, human response. ... www.tcfcanada.net/articles/coping/anger.htm - 11k - ------- Grieving Your primary task in dealing with anger, of course, is to acknowledge and accept ... This is the most painful stage of the grieving process, because it's ... www.divorceinfo.com/grieving.htm - 35k - ------- Coping With Death, Grief, and Loss Handout Time and support facilitate the grieving process, allowing an ... Anger may result from feeling abandoned, occurring in cases of loss through death. ... www.uiowa.edu/~ucs/griefloss.html - 35k - ------- Grieving and Healing - 5 Steps to Help You Through the Grieving ... In my practice as a therapist, I have counseled many people who lost a loved one and worked through the grieving process. Combining my own experience with ... seniorliving.about.com/od/lifetransitionsaging/a/grieving.htm - 23k - ------- Grief - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia While many who grieve are able to work through their loss independently, accessing additional support from bereavement professionals may promote the process ... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grief - 66k - ------- The Grieving Process The grieving process gives us time to reflect and find new strength that ... Understanding more about grief and the grieving process can help you heal, ... http://www.hns.org/CenterforGriefHea...0/Default.aspx - 19k - ------- ==================== google Results about 1,480,000 for transfer OR transference psychology OR psychological http://www.google.com/search?num=30&...&btnG=Sear ch PURE Republicanism?? It's now clear. Six years of PURE Republicanism - BOTH houses AND the Prez. Pure as it gets. So? Are you better off now than seven years ago? Are you proud with what they have done to America and her reputation? ...To your reputation? ....all the sleaze, lies and bribery? How about all the killing? ....Americans torture now? Proud? If actions speak louder than rhetoric, then name ONE good thing about Republicanism. Just one. Just one *real* thing. Can't do it? You have only feelsgood rhetoric? So? Your Republicanism more like a bad habit then? |
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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
"Doug Bashford" wrote in message om... Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. He hates mountain bikers because they have sex, and he does not. This accounts for the endless stream of mountain bikers, and the relative short supply of enbvirowhackos such as him. |
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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
Jeff Strickland said about: Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. He hates mountain bikers because they have sex, and he does not. This accounts for the endless stream of mountain bikers, and the relative short supply of enbvirowhackos such as him. His guise as environmentalist is just that. His posting to ca.environment, and sci.environment is part of that gambit. In part he is attempting to fool himself. It's part of the repression mentioned. In fact, he is an anti-bike whacko, a victim of sad circumstance. His missusage of this gambit, despite his intentions, makes him an anti-environmentalist. His is the perfect case of; "the road to hell is paved with good intentions." Said otherwise: actions and results speak louder than intent and rhetoric. -- PURE Republicanism?? It's now clear. Six years of PURE Republicanism - BOTH houses AND the Prez. Pure as it gets. So? Are you better off now than seven years ago? Are you proud with what they have done to America and her reputation? ...To your reputation? ....all the sleaze, lies and bribery? How about all the killing? ....Americans torture now? Proud? If actions speak louder than rhetoric, then name ONE good thing about Republicanism. Just one. Just one *real* thing. Can't do it? You have only feelsgood rhetoric? So? Your Republicanism more like a bad habit then? |
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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
At least he keeps using the same post name, which makes him easy to
filter out. I just don't understand why he keeps posting to this newsgroup. Why not just target all the mountain biking groups, and quite spamming all the non-bikers that browse the "backcountry" forum. |
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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
"ShadowTek" wrote in message ... At least he keeps using the same post name, which makes him easy to filter out. I just don't understand why he keeps posting to this newsgroup. Why not just target all the mountain biking groups, and quite spamming all the non-bikers that browse the "backcountry" forum. Because his real agenda is not bikes at all, his real agenda is rubber on dirt. If Mike had his way, the backcountry would be closed to any form of human visitation. Mike wants you to go to the museum to see what nature looks like, he opposes you actually going into a natural area to experience it for yourself. Mike would prefer you stand in front of a mural while a voice in the speaker says, "imagine the tranquility of the sounds of birds singing, crickets chirping, and the occasional large mammal passing by." |
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Excellent post Doug. I believe it has progressed to a dangerous point
over the years into a more sociopathic personality which can happen in your past lies sublime. THE MALIGNANT PERSONALITY: (1) They are habitual liars. They seem incapable of either knowing or telling the truth about anything. (2) They are egotistical to the point of narcissism. They really believe they are set apart from the rest of humanity by some special grace. (3) They scapegoat; they are incapable of either having the insight or willingness to accept responsibility for anything they do. Whatever the problem, it is always someone else's fault. (4) They are remorselessly vindictive when thwarted or exposed. (5) Genuine religious, moral, or other values play no part in their lives. They have no empathy for others and are capable of violence. Under older psychological terminology, they fall into the category of psychopath or sociopath, but unlike the typical psychopath, their behavior is masked by a superficial social facade. |
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Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers.
On Tue, 27 May 2008 03:10:00 GMT, (Doug Bashford)
wrote: Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. It is important to recognize anger as a natural, human response to death. Many years ago Mike Vandeman's brother was killed in San Fransisco in a bike accedent. As often happens, he became very angry at his brother for dying. Seemingly he never got over this (repressed) anger and it may have even grown into a form of hatred. Of course anger at a dead brother is socially and psychologically unacceptable, thus repressed, and thus often one of the more difficult symptoms in the grieving process to handle since it is hidden, often deeply. So rather than do the unthinkable and (say) **** on his brother's grave, he "transfered" his anger (and possible hatred) to bikers in general. This may have been more likely if his brother was seen in a near god-like or guru status, *or if he was an abuser.* =============== Transference From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Transference is a phenomenon in psychology characterized by unconscious redirection of feelings for one person to another. One definition of transference is "the inappropriate repetition in the present of a relationship that was important in a person's childhood." Another definition is "the redirection of feelings and desires and especially of those unconsciously retained from childhood toward a new object." Still another definition is "a reproduction of emotions relating to repressed experiences, esp. of childhood, and the substitution of another person . . . for the original object of the repressed impulses." Transference was first described by Sigmund Freud, who acknowledged its importance for psychoanalysis for better understanding of the patient's feelings. .... Transference is common. Only in a personally or socially harmful context can transference be described as a pathological issue. A new theory of transference known as AMT (Abusive Multiple Transference) has been suggested by David W. Bernstein, in which abusers not only transfer negative feelings directed towards their former abusers to their own victims, but also transfer the power and dominance of the former abusers to themselves. This kind of transference is sometimes part of the psychological makeup of murderers -- for example the serial killer Carroll Cole. While his father was away in World War II, Cole's mother engaged in several extramarital affairs, forcing Cole to watch. She later beat him to ensure that he would not alert his father. Cole would later come to murder many women whom he considered "loose," and those in general who reminded him of his mother. Transference and counter-transference during psychotherapy In a therapy context, transference refers to redirection of a client's feelings from a significant person to a therapist. Transference is often manifested as an erotic attraction towards a therapist, but can be seen in many other forms such as rage, hatred, mistrust, parentification, extreme dependence, or even placing the therapist in a god-like or guru status. ........ See also * grieving * projection * countertransference * Parataxic distortion * displacement ==================== http://www.google.com/search?num=30&...er&btnG=Search The Stages Of Grief A Normal Life Process; Five Stages Of Grief. 1. Denial and Isolation. ... Anger. The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the ... http://www.memorialhospital.org/libr...ess-THE-3.html - 17k - ------- Anger and the Grieving Process Anger is but one of many emotional reactions to the painful reality of death. It is important to recognize anger as a natural, human response. ... www.tcfcanada.net/articles/coping/anger.htm - 11k - ------- Grieving Your primary task in dealing with anger, of course, is to acknowledge and accept ... This is the most painful stage of the grieving process, because it's ... www.divorceinfo.com/grieving.htm - 35k - ------- Coping With Death, Grief, and Loss Handout Time and support facilitate the grieving process, allowing an ... Anger may result from feeling abandoned, occurring in cases of loss through death. ... www.uiowa.edu/~ucs/griefloss.html - 35k - ------- Grieving and Healing - 5 Steps to Help You Through the Grieving .. In my practice as a therapist, I have counseled many people who lost a loved one and worked through the grieving process. Combining my own experience with ... seniorliving.about.com/od/lifetransitionsaging/a/grieving.htm - 23k - ------- Grief - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia While many who grieve are able to work through their loss independently, accessing additional support from bereavement professionals may promote the process ... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grief - 66k - ------- The Grieving Process The grieving process gives us time to reflect and find new strength that ... Understanding more about grief and the grieving process can help you heal, ... http://www.hns.org/CenterforGriefHea...0/Default.aspx - 19k - ------- ==================== google Results about 1,480,000 for transfer OR transference psychology OR psychological http://www.google.com/search?num=30&...&btnG=Sear ch PURE Republicanism?? It's now clear. Six years of PURE Republicanism - BOTH houses AND the Prez. Pure as it gets. So? Are you better off now than seven years ago? Are you proud with what they have done to America and her reputation? ...To your reputation? ...all the sleaze, lies and bribery? How about all the killing? ...Americans torture now? Proud? If actions speak louder than rhetoric, then name ONE good thing about Republicanism. Just one. Just one *real* thing. Can't do it? You have only feelsgood rhetoric? So? Your Republicanism more like a bad habit then? Too bad it's 100% lies. But that's nothing new for mountain bikers, is it? -- I am working on creating wildlife habitat that is off-limits to humans ("pure habitat"). Want to help? (I spent the previous 8 years fighting auto dependence and road construction.) Please don't put a cell phone next to any part of your body that you are fond of! http://home.pacbell.net/mjvande |
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in alt.fan.rush-limbaugh, In HF1%j.13303$3j.11740@trnddc05 On Wed, 28 May 2008 00:27:19 GMT, Jeff Strickland said about: Why Mike Vandeman REALLY hates bikers. "ShadowTek" wrote in message ... At least he keeps using the same post name, which makes him easy to filter out. I just don't understand why he keeps posting to this newsgroup. Why not just target all the mountain biking groups, and quite spamming all the non-bikers that browse the "backcountry" forum. Why isn't it logical? It seems to have a huge obsessive-compulsive component as well. Because his real agenda is not bikes at all, his real agenda is rubber on dirt. If Mike had his way, the backcountry would be closed to any form of human visitation. Mike wants you to go to the museum to see what nature looks like, he opposes you actually going into a natural area to experience it for yourself. Mike would prefer you stand in front of a mural while a voice in the speaker says, "imagine the tranquility of the sounds of birds singing, crickets chirping, and the occasional large mammal passing by." And oddly, anyplace where bikes can go is not likely to be very wild anyway. Same goes for parks, including National Parks...which is why I tend to avoid them for a nature experience. But parks and other concentrated rec areas do have their place. ...for one thing they keep the wimps out of the wild. PURE Republicanism?? It's now clear. Six years of PURE Republicanism - BOTH houses AND the Prez. Pure as it gets. So? Are you better off now than seven years ago? Are you proud with what they have done to America and her reputation? ...To your reputation? ....all the sleaze, lies and bribery? How about all the killing? ....Americans torture now? Proud? If actions speak louder than rhetoric, then name ONE good thing about Republicanism. Just one. Just one *real* thing. Can't do it? You have only feelsgood rhetoric? So? Your Republicanism more like a bad habit then? |
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