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leo wrote: *http://tinyurl.com/dekpe * For dead link in the futu Life has come full circle, from bad times to good, but it's all relative to Gerry McAvoy By Brett Savage MANASQUAN RESIDENT GERRY MCAVOY [ABOVE] LEARNED HOW TO RIDE A UNICYCLE WHEN HE WAS A KID, A TALENT HE SAYS, “YOU NEVER FORGET”. GERRY MCAVOY LIKES TO SAY THAT HE HAS COME FULL-CIRCLE. THAT SEEMS THE EASIEST AND MOST CONVENIENT WAY TO ACCURATELY DESCRIBE THE ERRATIC COURSE OF HIS LIFE. He’s run the gamut from good times to bad and back again, and has experienced more than his fair share of heartache, frustration and disappointment. Through it all, however, he’s maintained an unflappable sense of optimism, and appears perfectly content to view life with a glass-half-full mentality that is both remarkably resilient and essentially unshakable. Mr. McAvoy, 49, is a native son. He has lived in Manasquan his entire life, with the exception of a few brief dalliances “up and down the East Coast.” He can fondly recall “the way things used to be in town” with impressive vividness. “I remember all the old businesses. I was running around the streets when Weir’s Pharmacy still had the soda fountains, I remember Myer’s Five and Ten, and I remember going to Ralph’s Produce Market when they used to have the produce right out on the street for you to buy,” Mr. McAvoy reminisced. “There was also the Old Town Bakery, where I used to love to buy elephant ears, and going to the Algonquin Theatre for movies, and of course the Candy Kitchen. Things were a lot different then.” Mr. McAvoy took pleasure in the simple pastimes offered by the small beach community when he was a kid and profited from an idyllic setting that was more like a big playground than a town to him. “I remember going to the beach all the time. I loved fishing, still do actually, and I caught my first striped bass off the ocean side of the inlet jetty. There used to be tons of blowfish, or puffer fish, down there by the Main Street Bridge, too. We used to grab buckets of those.” It was also early on that Mr. McAvoy discovered he had a very specific talent that he enjoyed nurturing. He began to explore his creative side and started tinkering around with various rudimentary carpentry projects. “I was always very innovative. Way before computers and electronic games, I was always fascinated with woodworking and liked to toy around with things,” Mr. McAvoy explained. “I had an imagination and liked to construct things, too. I would piece things together from discarded lumber and that type of stuff you find lying around.” A self-proclaimed “garbologist,” Mr. McAvoy found out that he was able to assemble and construct whatever conceptual carpentry piece came to his mind by simply walking around town, collecting key items he deemed fit to serve his purposes and tossing them together. His various experimental projects all shared this chimerical quality, and he was able to mold this natural virtuosity into a definite skill that turned out to be more passion than recreation. The crowning achievement of this innovative tinkering was a relatively detailed, and rather luxurious, tree house in the backyard. “It was great,” he exclaimed, “I built a fort in the back yard when I was younger. I went around town and collected the materials and built a two-room tree house in the backyard. It had a roof, a door, windows ... everything. I even ran an extension cord out there so that we could have lights and a stereo. It was a great place to hang out on a rainy day because of the roof and the windows and all.” Unfortunately, this level of creativity, energy and bubbling enthusiasm didn’t translate to the classroom. Mr. McAvoy, who can readily supply an anecdote about playing hooky in kindergarten, openly admits that he was never a great student. “I stayed back in first grade,” he said, “and it didn’t get any better after that. I was a daydreamer and would be the first person to grab a seat by the windows. Somewhere along the line, and I guess it must have been pretty early on, I developed a poor attitude towards school.” Compounding his academic difficulties over his formative years were some troubling events at home which inevitably impacted Mr. McAvoy. Mr. McAvoy is the one of seven children. He has two older brothers, two older sisters and a younger brother and sister. He said his two older brothers had enormous influence over his life. “My oldest brother, Dave, was a major influence in my life. He was very much the older brother in that regard. He was on the football team, the wrestling team, involved with all the clubs. All that stuff. He used to teach me to do everything back then,” Mr. McAvoy said. When Mr. McAvoy was in middle school, his eldest brother went off to college and fell into the seductive, experimental, open-minded and free-spirited allure of late-1960s counterculture. “I was exposed to all that stuff real early on because my brother was right in the middle of it all and what he did meant so much to me,” Mr. McAvoy said. “You know, I was in sixth, seventh and eighth grade, I didn’t like school, I was already at the window seat and all that, and on top of this I was exposed to what my brother was experiencing. It didn’t help my poor attitude any.” By the time he reached high school, Mr. McAvoy had had just about enough of education. “I quit [school] at the age of 15. I left in September of my freshman year so it was right at the beginning of the year. It was that same year that my eldest brother Dave died in a car accident. I remember how it impacted me. I never really got a chance to grieve because there was so much going on at once.” After leaving school, and feeling lost after the death of his brother, he managed to take advantage of his polished hand at carpentry and landed a job for a local cabinetmaker. A chance to utilize his talents, the job acted as a stabilizing force in his life. “I remember when I first went for the job. The manager asked me, ‘What do you know how to do, you’re just a 15-year-old kid?’ Well, I told him that I had made a pretty nice tree house in my backyard, and I told him all about it. I think that impressed him because he ended up hiring me because he said I reminded him of himself at that age.” It was not long after the death of his eldest brother, that his second-eldest brother, Kevin, became involved in the counterculture lifestyle. “Kevin and I were very close at the time, and his actions had an impact on me,” Mr. McAvoy said. Mr. McAvoy’s life began mirroring those of his two older brothers. He stopped working for the cabinetmaker and began picking up a number of odd jobs around town to make a living. “I worked for a bunch of different contractors at the time. They knew me, and if they needed some work done they would call me up and I would be able to help them out while they were helping me out. I also did a lot of traveling around that time. I was all up and down the East Coast. I spent a lot of time in Maine with friends. I was basically self-employed for a long time,” he said. “People knew that I liked to collect things, too,” he added, “so they would give me a call and I would clean up basements or garages or attics and take whatever I wanted. The two-car garage at my grandparents’ house was filled with stuff that I had collected at this time. I started to buy things and collect antiques and just pursued various interests to keep busy,” Mr. McAvoy added. “A couple of times I sold Christmas trees. I would drive up to Maine with my pickup truck rigged with racks and I would buy a bunch of Christmas trees that I brought back and sold,” he said. It wasn’t long before his brother Kevin became a casualty of the counterculture lifestyle he was leading. Kevin died of AIDS in 1987, but before his death, Mr. McAvoy said that his brother had managed to effectively set his life on the path to recovery. It was a watershed moment that proved to be an inspirational turning point for Mr. McAvoy. “Prior to his death, he was able to set a good example for me,” Mr. McAvoy noted. “During the time that he was sick I started to realize that it mattered that I had quit school. That I wasn’t going in the right direction. That I had obstacles I needed to overcome. It was also around that time that I realized that I could do this [go back to school], if I tried. That was a big transitional moment in my life,” Mr. McAvoy said. Mr. McAvoy went to the Long Branch Learning Center, where he pursued his General Equivalency Diploma [GED]. He remembers the road being extremely rough and daunting initially, and not without some formidable bumps; but his Kevin was able to set him straight and lead him in the right direction. “I went to see my brother in the hospital just before he died,” Mr. McAvoy recalled. “It was right after I had taken a test and I didn’t think that I had gotten any of the questions right. I told my teacher that it was because of all the stuff that was happening with my brother at the time. There was so much to think about then. When I told Kevin what I said to my teacher, he removed his oxygen mask and simply stated, ‘Don’t use me as an excuse.’ That put everything in perspective and I was able to persevere from then on. “I always used to sabotage my own efforts,” Mr. McAvoy continued. “Then I would become overwhelmed by everything and quit. Even worse, I would justify quitting.” After receiving his brother’s inspirational message, Mr. McAvoy dove diligently into his workload and earned his GED. continued... -- unicycle6869 - LEVEL 10 RIDER-HELL YA! Jamey (formerly known as tuna6869) Which is worse, a president who screws an intern, or a president who screws the country? *20 Years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the things you did-EXPLORE-DREAM-LIVE! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ unicycle6869's Profile: http://www.unicyclist.com/profile/8990 View this thread: http://www.unicyclist.com/thread/22148 |
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M-tv's pimp my ride was planned to be titled "pimp my unicycle" as well. http://tinyurl.com/8s6s8 -- leo '+1 866-UNI-CYCL' (callto://+18668642925) 'unicycle.net' (http://www.unicycle.net/) 'Subscribe' (http://unicyclist.org/cont/subscribe.cfm) to 'unicyclist.org' (http://unicyclist.org/)! ------------------------------------------------------------------------ leo's Profile: http://www.unicyclist.com/profile/224 View this thread: http://www.unicyclist.com/thread/22148 |
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