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SuperSlinky says:
How long will it be before you label me a Nazi and I get to invoke Godwin's Law? I'm assuming that happens a lot, SS, from the fact that you bring it up so early in the discussion. Does that tell you something? Steve |
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"Bob M" wrote in message news Yeah, except I, speaking as one man, don't fart or do many of the other things you say that most men do. Perhaps that's because I was raised by a woman, mainly, but I don't like to do those things. And I don't think that's it has hurt my adult experience. Of course it has Bob - you are obviously mentally and emotionally FUBAR because of it. I can tell, and I bet everyone else here can too. FFS, get out as fast as you can and spend as much time in sole male company, swapping farts, cuttin', smashin' and explodin' stuff, before it's too late, and you end up in a mental institution, or worse yet, become another suicide statistic. Shaun aRe can't believe some people can be sooooo damned blind to themselves. So sad........... |
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"Monique Y. Herman" wrote in message ... As someone who felt misunderstood most of her youth (yeah, I know, that's everyone) and still often feels quite alienated by the rest of the world, I hope that, if I have daughters who are at all like I was, I will understand that "most girls" and "most women" does not mean "all girls" and "all women." Of course it doesn't - we can only safely pre-judge to a certain level, so as to make sense of the world, then reserve final/approaching final judgement for after actual first hand experience of the individual prerson or situation. A conclusion comes at the end, not before, or during. See, for me, this conversation isn't about how to raise teenage boys, so much as it is about how left out I felt as a teenage girl because it was considered "normal" for boys to be off shooting guns, playing with knives, burning stuff, etc. Sure, they get punished, but in the subtext it's all "boys will be boys." On the other hand, if girls do these things or want to, they are considered an embarrassment to their family, and that is made quite clear to them. Girls aren't allowed to act like boys, or there is holy hell to pay. Same with my Wife, Kath - she hated that her slightly younger brother got to do all this cool stuff with his mates, and she didn't, or worse still, had to stay home and wash the dishes. Hey, she turned out great regardless, and certainly is not a 'soft girly' woman, if you will - Kath is Kath, and fully definable in no other way. Like we all have to grow and learn as individuals, we too are growing and learning as 'the human race' - it takes time, and it doesn't even nearly happen all at once. I 'generally' see far more acceptance of individuals on an individual basis now than I did even 10 years ago. I call that damned good progress. Shaun aRe Shaun aRe |
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"Monique Y. Herman" wrote in message ... On Sat, 20 Sep 2003 09:08:19 -0700, Penny S penned: methinks you should have a few kids and then repost with some real life opinions. methinks that was snide and rude. Nah, I think it was a point made by someone that's been in their own version of where you are at, then had kids and got the shock of their lives by way of revelation after revelation, heheheheheh......... It's true, all the theorising in the world goes out the window, I can see that and I have no kids of my own (but I've been close to so many as they grew up). The problem with analysis and psycho-emotional dissection, is that we are far, FAR greater than the sum of our parts, so the parts mean less than zero on their own. Best way learn how an individual 'ticks' is spend some time with them - no amount of theorising, psychology 'crap' can even come close. Besides, I'm pretty sure that "I wanted to post to a.m-b about my real life experiences" is just about the worst reason to have kids, ever. Heheheh, I can think of worse! Shaun aRe thinking of having a few kids with Kath in hopes they'll be ready for next BBQ season ',;~}~ |
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"Shaun Rimmer" wrote in message ... Snip Same with my Wife, Kath - she hated that her slightly younger brother got to do all this cool stuff with his mates, and she didn't, or worse still, had to stay home and wash the dishes. Hey, she turned out great regardless, and certainly is not a 'soft girly' woman, if you will - Kath is Kath, and fully definable in no other way. Yeah, but you still make her do all the dishes right? Shaun aRe Shaun aRe Steve. |
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"Super Slimy" wrote: bomba said... I hope you're joking. No, I'm not. I don't believe they should be persecuted, but I don't think it should be legitimized or promoted either. A very high percentage of homosexuals have easily diagnosed mental disorders, and institutionalized mental patients show a very high rate of homosexual behavior. It is obviously abnormal and deviant behavior, but since they voluntarily Darwinise themselves from the gene pool, we can't be too upset about them. Before you so righteously defend them, maybe you should reflect on the fact that most children are molested homosexually, and that the astonishing promiscuity in the world of gay men fueled the AIDS explosion which now threatens us all. Pfffftttttt bwaaaaahahahahahahahahah! Your view is _madly_ skewed, probably due to the fact you have your head firmly rammed up your arse. There's more bull**** in what you just wrote than even MV spouts here. Oh, and don't even think of pulling that 'you're just falling for the PC line' ****e, 'cos it couldn't be further from reality if it were in another dimension. And don't even bother saying I'm 'pro gay' either, the world doesn't work that way, and a truly balanced view doesn't even nearly equate to 'pro' or 'anti'. I suppose subtleties of thought, imagination and reason are beyond you though. Is your world black and white? How utterly dull then, if so. Your prejudice and irrational fear of homosexuality has obviously stopped you from even taking in the information that's out there that may disagree with you. I could intelligently dissect your statements with reason in so many ways, but really, I can't be bothered wasting my time - I think your mental state is a permanent problem. Shaun aRe - You are what is wrong with this world. |
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"Tlacatecatl" wrote in message . giganews.com... On Mon, 22 Sep 2003 21:39:52 -0700, Super Slinky wrote: Ditto for schizophrenia. Does this demonstrate that schizophrenia isn't a disorder? One of the classic arguments against a biological basis for homosexual orientation has been that it is a cultural phenomenon, brought about by various pressures of family and society. When the incidence of homosexuality is seen to be virtually identical in cultures all over the world, which have radically different customs, practices, traditions, family structures, social structures, and so on, it is impossible to pin down a specific element common to all of those cultures and societies that could be the cause of homosexuality. And thus your point is right on target, although perhaps not the target you intended. Schizophrenia clearly has a biological basis, and so does homosexuality, and so do a variety of other characteristics. They are similar in that respect. I¹ll return to the topic of disorders in a moment. Many animals eat their own feces and kill the offspring of rivals. Does that equate to normal behavior in humans? ³Normal² has a variety of applications. Statistically, Shaquille O¹Neal is highly abnormal with respect to his height. Einstein was also highly abnormal with respect to his intelligence. However it is normal for a certain percentage of the population to be over 7 feet tall, just as it is normal for a certain percentage of the population to have astronomically high IQ¹s. ³Normal² turns out not to be a very useful term. The point of the research cited above is that the organization of the brain is very similar among vertebrates, and more similar still among mammals. If animals, particularly mammals, engage in homosexual behavior, it is a stretch to attribute that to cultural or societal factors, given that different animal species have very different social structures, if in fact they have a social structure at all. Other research that I cited indicated that genetic factors, prenatal stress and various drugs influence the development of the sexual regions of the vertebrate brain. This produces a homosexual orientation in a variety of animal species, including humans. Along with other research I cited which demonstrates that there are measurable differences between the brains of heterosexuals and homosexuals, the conclusion is inescapable. Homosexual orientation is a biological phenomenon, which involves differences in the development, organization and function of specific portions of the vertebrate brain. Homosexuals don't "choose" to be sexually attracted to members of the same sex, they're born that way. Sophistries, fallacies, and non sequiturs. I don¹t see your evidence or your reasoning. One of the great things about science is that it is conducted in the public forum. All of the articles I cited are available at the library. If you think you have found flaws in those studies, point them out. Are you really a scientist, or do you just play one on Usenet? Using an inclusive rather than an exclusive ³or², the answer is ³yes². Because it can be linked to genetic and prenatal factors precludes it from being a disorder? A bizarre conclusion. Countless disorders have genetic and prenatal causes. I am baffled as to why you think this is such a disarming argument. As I discussed above, you can consider Shaq to have a height disorder and Einstein to have an intelligence disorder if you wish. But the term ³disorder² generally has a more specific meaning in science, namely that there is some morbidity or impairment of function. Yet there is no known impairment or morbidity for homosexuals. With respect to measures of intelligence, physical health, psychological health, social adjustment, vision, hearing, chemical senses, tactile and proprioceptive senses, mechanical aptitude, athletic ability, verbal ability, mathematical ability, spatial ability, and on and on they are the same as heterosexuals. Promiscuous individuals, homosexual and heterosexual, who engage in risky sexual practices have a lower life expectancy and higher incidence of disease. But homosexuals in monogamous relationships, or who practice safe sex, have the same incidence of morbidity and mortality as heterosexuals in the same situations. Individuals with a homosexual orientation (think back to biological differences in brain structure) are no different than heterosexuals in any way except one: Their sexual orientation. The associations between homosexuality and various mental disorders are more than tenuous. I have cited one very important association and there are others. The proportions of homosexuals may differ from those of heterosexuals with respect to any particular psychological disorder, just as the proportions of males and females differ for specific disorders, and likewise with the proportions of individuals of various races, nationalities, socioeconomic status, and so on. But across the board, considering all disorders taken together, there is no difference in the incidence of psychological disorders between homosexuals and heterosexuals. That was one of the articles I cited. As for child molestation and homosexuality, it all depends on where the statistics come from. Boys are less likely to report the abuse than girls. I'm sure you have heard of NAMBLA, but there is no equivalent organization for the systematic molestation of girls. But no matter what statistics you choose to believe, there can be no denying that homosexuals are vastly over-represented as child molesters compared to their prevalence in the general population. The Department of Justice does not classify crimes by sexual orientation, and as you point out there are problems in reporting as well as problems in the methodology used for counting crimes. As a result all of the numbers in this area are highly speculative. In any case the fact remains that the probability of a child being molested by a heterosexual is much higher than the probability of molestation by a homosexual, based solely on the fact that homosexuals represent only a small fraction of the population. If we¹re concerned about the incidence of sex crimes against children, the heterosexual population will contribute the vast majority of sex offenders and sex crimes. There are no doubt many reasons for homosexual behavior, but whether a person has some sort of brain malfunction, or if what would otherwise be a heterosexual person is drawn to the hype surrounding the gay culture, my point was that homosexuality is abnormal, deviant behavior. That is self-evident, and like the emperor who wore no clothes, all the potentates in the land claiming to see that which is not there does not alter reality. What is evident to you is not evident to the scientific community at large, and hopefully is becoming less "evident" to the population at large. A certain percentage of the population is born with a homosexual orientation, just as certain percentages are born left handed, or over 6 feet tall, or with unusually good eye-hand coordination, and so on. To deny this is to be out of touch with reality. To call these "disorders" is to use a highly idiosyncractic personal definition of the term. Which brings us to your long-winded bibliography. Is it any surprise that the academia of psychology has adopted the activist gay cause? In many of the articles I cited the research was conducted not by psychologists, but by biochemists, neuroscientists, physiologists, cell and molecular biologists, physicians, and so on. The home of the academics is the same as that of the gay movement--college campuses. I spent years in that world, and I know how it works. Not only is it an incestuous relationship to begin with, since there are any number of research PhDs who are also homosexual, but the gay movement is an irresistible force there, and the academics are no immovable object. In fact there is a conflict of interest, because the gay activists and their sympathizers are their students, their colleagues, and ultimately their meal ticket. Of course they took the path of least resistance and gave the gay movement the orthodox approval they demand. To do anything less would have started a battle that they hadn't bargained for. It just wasn't a hill they were prepared to die on. You can still find a few mavericks who reject what is obviously a capitulation and a sell-out, but such honesty comes with a high price, since they are invariably shouted down as religious fanatics or bigots, as is happening to me in this thread. You have just put forth, without evidence, a conspiracy theory in which you propose that the majority of the scientific community in this field is somehow in league against heterosexuals. Unlike homosexuality, this has the makings of an identifiable psychological disorder. So let's just say that we have both had our say and that we aren't going to convince each other. I won't detail the myriad health problems, diseases and generally shortened life span that is endemic to the gay lifestyle. You would no doubt shrug that off too, in spite of the fact that these concerns alone should mark homosexuality as an illness and a health concern demanding the attention of health professionals. You¹re confusing homosexual behavior with homosexual orientation. The former consists of actions, the latter consists of neural development and brain structures. As I said above, a promiscuous lifestyle by any individual results in a variety of health problems, but homosexual orientation by itself results in none. I had already surmised that you would probably not be receptive to the information I posted. My goal was to provide the information for those who might not know the science behind all of this, in the hope that eventually the bigotry against homosexuality, as well as the bigotry involving race and gender and so on, may become a thing of the past. If you want to discuss this further I will gladly continue, but for the benefit of the readers of am-b we should take this offline. too damned good to snip Thank you for your clear and intelligent presentation of the facts there TT, glad someone fully lucid and without prejudice here actually was in possession of all the facts. Shaun aRe woulda said something to him more along the lines of "You are a stupid ****wit Super Slimy, go read up, lose your prejudices and fears.", or summink................ |
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Shaun Rimmer said...
Pfffftttttt bwaaaaahahahahahahahahah! Your view is _madly_ skewed, probably due to the fact you have your head firmly rammed up your arse. There's more bull**** in what you just wrote than even MV spouts here. Oh, and don't even think of pulling that 'you're just falling for the PC line' ****e, 'cos it couldn't be further from reality if it were in another dimension. And don't even bother saying I'm 'pro gay' either, the world doesn't work that way, and a truly balanced view doesn't even nearly equate to 'pro' or 'anti'. I suppose subtleties of thought, imagination and reason are beyond you though. Is your world black and white? How utterly dull then, if so. Your prejudice and irrational fear of homosexuality has obviously stopped you from even taking in the information that's out there that may disagree with you. I could intelligently dissect your statements with reason in so many ways, but really, I can't be bothered wasting my time - I think your mental state is a permanent problem. Shaun aRe - You are what is wrong with this world. Gee, I thought you were the one who didn't take things seriously. I guess that only applies when you aren't on your soap box. |
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Tlacatecatl said...
As I discussed above, you can consider Shaq to have a height disorder and Einstein to have an intelligence disorder if you wish. But the term ³disorder² generally has a more specific meaning in science, namely that there is some morbidity or impairment of function. Yet there is no known impairment or morbidity for homosexuals. With respect to measures of intelligence, physical health, psychological health, social adjustment, vision, hearing, chemical senses, tactile and proprioceptive senses, mechanical aptitude, athletic ability, verbal ability, mathematical ability, spatial ability, and on and on they are the same as heterosexuals. Sex is a reproductive function, so at the very least homosexual orientation results in impairment, complete dysfunction in fact, of the reproductive function. The last I checked, the reproductive function was one of the cornerstones of life. I guess you were asleep that day in biology 101. Glad I could help to round out your education. Any life form that comes into existence incapable of reproducing is an impaired creature indeed. Promiscuous individuals, homosexual and heterosexual, who engage in risky sexual practices have a lower life expectancy and higher incidence of disease. But homosexuals in monogamous relationships, or who practice safe sex, have the same incidence of morbidity and mortality as heterosexuals in the same situations. Individuals with a homosexual orientation (think back to biological differences in brain structure) are no different than heterosexuals in any way except one: Their sexual orientation. Actually, there are serious health issues associated with anal sex, including a risk of anal cancer that is 40 times higher than the heterosexual population. There are a number of illnesses carried through fecal matter, for example typhoid fever, and the gay population has the only known outbreaks of this now rare disease in the United States. AIDS is much easier to spread through anal sex. The proportions of homosexuals may differ from those of heterosexuals with respect to any particular psychological disorder, just as the proportions of males and females differ for specific disorders, and likewise with the proportions of individuals of various races, nationalities, socioeconomic status, and so on. But across the board, considering all disorders taken together, there is no difference in the incidence of psychological disorders between homosexuals and heterosexuals. That was one of the articles I cited. This is at odds with a number of other studies which show much higher risk for psychological problems, including suicide attempts, bipolar disorder and multiple disorders. See for example the Dutch NEMESIS study. The Department of Justice does not classify crimes by sexual orientation, and as you point out there are problems in reporting as well as problems in the methodology used for counting crimes. As a result all of the numbers in this area are highly speculative. In any case the fact remains that the probability of a child being molested by a heterosexual is much higher than the probability of molestation by a homosexual, based solely on the fact that homosexuals represent only a small fraction of the population. If we¹re concerned about the incidence of sex crimes against children, the heterosexual population will contribute the vast majority of sex offenders and sex crimes. Even the most conservative estimates place the percentage of boys molested at about 40% and the vast majority of the perpetrators are men. Female child molesters often choose female victims as well. Thus, a very high percentage of child molestations are a homosexual act, regardless of what you consider to be orientation of the offender. You have just put forth, without evidence, a conspiracy theory in which you propose that the majority of the scientific community in this field is somehow in league against heterosexuals. Unlike homosexuality, this has the makings of an identifiable psychological disorder. No conspiracy, just an illustration of how pressure group politics works. Feel free to call the men in white uniforms to come and take me away. That way I can live free and easy on the dole and won't have to bother with working anymore. If you want to discuss this further I will gladly continue, but for the benefit of the readers of am-b we should take this offline. No need to discuss it further. You aren't going to dissuade me from the self-evident truth with your circular logic anymore than I can convince you of what you choose not to see. |
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On Tue, 23 Sep 2003 15:05:52 +0100, "Shaun Rimmer"
wrote: Shaun aRe woulda said something to him more along the lines of "You are a stupid ****wit Super Slimy, go read up, lose your prejudices and fears.", or summink................ Sounds like Slinky is doing a whole lotta banging on that closet door. pete fagerlin ::Revolutionary! Evolutionary! Yet so retro! ::www.yestubes.com |
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